Day to day relationships

I am sitting on the patio talking about relationships and what is the secret to a good one. Then a brilliant sister says "it's not the big moments, its the day to day that make a relationship". Think about this.. it's so true. In friendship or in marriage, the people we truly count on are the ones who have walked through all the good and the bad. It is so easy to become disconnected. Its like building a high rise of a building the stronger the base the higher up it goes. Every relationship takes two people, lets be the first to start the day to day. Lets build the base, or perhaps just fix the broken cement.