Oh no not you!

I heard it and it made me cringe.. That negative undertone greeting. Starts like... “Oh no not you!”.... “ who invited you?”.... or... “There is no room for you!”. When it happened today, we all nervously laughed and it l instantly changed the energy in the room. If our daughters greeted a friend like that, we would have a chit chat about being a mean girl. So, as adult woman why are we “humorously” greeting friends and acquaintances by not including them? The little girls inside of us have been left out at the playground, and we don’t want to be left out as adults. Well, thats not entirely true. Sometimes I want to be left out. Like the kids bottle drive days, I can only hope they say “ who invited you” when I show up.