jump in

I had a long conversation with a friend today about their rocky marriage, somehow everyone believes I am now the resident on failed marriages. When mine collapsed, I looked for advice wherever I could get it, so now I am paying my dues. Looking back, I was willing to move.. Move away from the pain. If someone offered an activity, I tried it or a workshop, I registered. I just wanted out of the muddy river I was in and I knew that I couldn’t do it by myself. I think we call all agree that life is hard and we can all find ourselves in water over our heads. Today, I heard stories of hurt and anger. Why is it so easy it is to be cruel to those closest to us? And push away the people, that at one point, we declared our undying love for. It’s time for this couple to move forward in their relationship, together or apart. They are stuck in an eddy in the stream with no current. Water is power and at some point the river will get them. Sadly, it will be to late to fix it.